
“Interview
with God”
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a little closer to Heaven
Exploring
the Silence, by Richard Mahler
A critical step in the embrace of silence and solitude is setting aside the notion
that we have to be "doing something" throughout our waking hours. For
most of us, this goes against what we have been taught since childhood: that
being active and productive is the best way to proceed.
The
Goodness of Life
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EMBRACING SILENCE
10 SIMPLE THINGS YOU CAN DO TO
BRING SILENCE,
STILLNESS, AND SOLITUDE INTO YOUR DAILY LIFE
1. Turn off the phone. A telephone can be a tyrant: demanding your undivided
attention with its insistent ring—and the implication that you must drop
everything to engage in conversation. If you're not dealing with something
urgent, a call can wait. Use an answering device to take messages and turn
off the ringer. Screening techniques can be used to identify callers without
answering. If you have a fax machine, ignore it for a while.
2. Walk in a park. Chances are there's
a park within easy walking, bicycling, or driving distance
from where you live. Take some time to experience the natural
quiet of trees and grass. Even in urban areas, a park is
more tranquil than the busy streets that surround it. If
there's a fountain or stream, so much the better, since the "white
noise" of flowing water screens human-made sounds and
soothes the soul.
3. Ignore the computer. Like the phone,
fax, and message machine, a humming computer begs for attention.
Don't give in. Your e-mail, the Internet, and unfinished
work will still be there when you're ready to return to them.
If there's a computer in your bedroom, consider moving it
so that it won't intrude on your sleep or relaxation. The
same goes for the TV set, which too often takes the place
of contemplation, intimate conversation, or lovemaking.
4. Go on a media fast. Many of us feel
the day hasn't really started until we read the newspaper
or check the headlines on TV or radio. Yet news by definition
is seldom good. Do you really need to know about the murder,
mayhem, or stock market dive? Give yourself a treat by going
without news for a full day. The habit may be easier to break
than you imagined.
5. Have a quiet car. Driving is stressful
enough, especially in rush hour traffic. Lower the tension
and reduce the distraction by turning off the radio, tape/CD
player, and telephone. Roll up the windows to shut out the
road noise. Pay attention to your driving, but also to the
scenery you're passing and what's going on inside your head—and
heart.
6. Eat a meal in silence. Most of us
don't pay much attention to the food we eat. We're too busy
talking, reading, watching TV, or working. Try cutting out
the distractions and let yourself really see, taste, smell,
and savor your food. Enjoying a delicious meal can instantly
comfort and relax us, particularly in the company of loved
ones.
7. Take a hot bath. Make an announcement: "I
am disappearing into the bathroom for an hour. Please do
not disturb me!" Light a candle; add oils, salts, or
scents to the water; stretch out against a bathtub pillow;
close your eyes and luxuriate in steamy sensuality. Alternatively,
take a long, hot shower and let the water wash your cares
and woes away. Let your mind drift and if you feel like singing,
let loose!
8. Go to your room and close the door.
As with your bath, let others in the household know that
you will be a much happier and kinder person if you take
some time to be alone. Do what's needed to let go of your
stress and recover your psychological balance. This may mean
stretching out on the bed, sitting on a meditation pillow,
or doing some yoga exercises. Maybe you'd like to draw, play
an instrument, or listen to some soothing music. Keep it
simple and tranquil.
9. Find the quietest time and most splendid
place you know. The world at dawn is special, often the most
calm and beautiful hour of the day. A secluded corner of
your garden—or home—may inspire serenity. Whatever
the space and time, find that restful sanctuary and let it
fill you with rapture.
10. Turn off the TV. We use it to relax,
to inform, and to entertain. But it sometimes can drain our
energy or add to our tension. Let the TV set know who’s
boss. You may find that an hour without TV's stimulation
(and constant homage to consumerism) leaves you much more
refreshed and relaxed than if you'd let a program suck you
in.
“Companion article
reprinted with permission from Richard Mahler and Red Wheel/Weiser,
LLC, publishers of Stillness: Daily Gifts of Solitude (Red
Wheel/Weiser LLC, $21.95, ISBN 1-59003-042-7). To order,
please contact Red Wheel/Weiser at: (800) 423-7087.”
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